Frederick Paul Neunder

Frederick Paul Neunder, beloved father, grandfather, and friend, passed away peacefully on September 23, 2025. He was a devoted husband to the late Patricia Kisiel-Neunder and is survived by his cherished children, Jacquelyn (Anthony Lamparelli) and Jonathan (Kristen) Neunder. Paul was a loving Granddaddy to his grandchildren, Henry, Felicity, Elsie, and Millie. Born into a close-knit family, Paul was the brother of Grace (late Roger) Little and the late Marilyn (Neil) McMahon and late William Gary (Louise) Neunder. He is also survived by many dear cousins, nieces, and nephews. Paul was proud to be the last surviving member of the R.O.M.E.O.'s (Retired Old Men Eating Out), a group that included cherished friends D. Henry, J. Sheele, H. Wild, M. Hillburger, G. Kauderer, J. Hastreiter, G. Donohue, and P. Walter. He dedicated over 45 years of his life to Curtis Screw Company before retiring. Paul enjoyed sailing, bowling, pickleball, tennis, euchre, and golf. He was a devoted supporter of Kis-N-Greens Golf Course and a proud member of the Lancaster Elks for over 23 years. A Mass of Christian Burial for both Patricia and Paul will be held at St. Mary of the Assumption, 1 St Marys Hill, Lancaster, NY 14086 on October 24th at 10 AM. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his honor to the Lancaster Elks Lodge #1478.

Paul will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.

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